I hugged Carli Bybel!

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Hello Everyone!

As you can see in the title above, I finally got to know and (hugged!) Carli Bybel in real life, not just by computer screen. She is my greatest inspiration in make up and I love her life attitude.

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    (me, waiting for the meet up, 90 Farenheit outside:))

 As I read on her facebook about meet up in Holmdel, New Jersey, you can imagine how excited I was:). Although the queue in front of ULTA Beauty was long, I was persistnetly waiting and it paid off:)

carli bybel holmdel ulta meet up femi-coach


carli bybel holmdel ulta meet up femi-coach

I thanked her for being present in my life and some few words more about my satisfaction of watching her channel on youtube. She is increadibly warm person, and I do appriciate the possibility to hug her. Brett, her boyfriend was also there, I took the opportunity to talk to him. I must admit, they are both lovely people. Down below I posted a short film of Carli event.

Enjoy! 🙂

Your Femi Coach


Heels or sandals? City Classic Look Tips & Vlog

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End of July. Hot climat touches everyone living in the city. You have scheduled a meeting with your friends, you are looking for a nice classy outfit, but you don’t want to fight at the end of the day  with injured feet, don’t you?:) We – Women always have the same problem. Flat shoes, or heels?

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This is what do we usually consider: “Heels look the best. Hopefully I will not walk to much, however sandals  are comfortable but… they are flat 🙁 Do they look good?” As long as I live, I think about it every time before I am preparing myself for a meeting. The circumstances like weather and level of tiredness of feet are the factors that may influence how will we feel not only phisically but also mentally. I am sure you were suffering at least one time in your life because of sore feet in heels in hot summer, screaming for relief. I know exactly this feeling so I have found an easy solution. I take additionally one pair of flat shoes with me in similar style of heels, that will still match the outfit. You carry the flats in bag, and change everytime you need it. There are two options.

1. PHOTO: flip flops in beige with silver elements (like the outfit)

2. PHOTO: high heels in beige, neutral color.


ootd femi-coach city classic look of summer


ootd femi-coach city classic look of summer



Nowadays people say, that fashion has no rules. Everything is trendy. Before I started writing this post, I was thinking about it for a longer time to share my impression with you. My conclusion is following. Classic clothing elements in simple shape or shades never go out of fashion. For sure I will write in future my MUST HAVE’S of closet! I am still in love with outfits in basic shades, where the whole outfit does not consist of more than three colors

1. black- jumpsuit

2. beige- shoes

3. silver- elements of clothes/bag/shoes

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I decided to wear light satin airy clothing to feel the summer wind around the body. The jumpsuit and sunglasses are from H&M. Now you can get both of elements on sale directly form H&M Online Store. I have checked it today (27. July) and they are still available in very affordable prize. Becuase of many silver elements – zip on the jumpsuit, silver thick chain of bag (Medium Michael Kors Cynthia) and little stones on flat shoes, I did not add any jewerly to maintain classic, minimalistic look. Down below I leave the link to my NYC vlog in this outfit! Enjoy the summer, Girls!



Natural look. The easiest ombre technique at home!

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Coming back from blond to its darker shade has never been easier. How is it possible?

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I was always used to traditional baleyage, actually for many years! Dying hair every month took not only money for hair treatment, but time. Moreover, it required regularity in visiting hairdresser, who dyed them every time for a bit different blondshade, what made me confused and not always satisfied. Hairdye methods has changed a lot in last 3 years. Rarely we can see women with contrast “striped” hairdye of baleyage.

One day I fell in love with ombre and got inspired.

femi-coach diy easy ombre at home darkening blonde roots

One sunny day I visited haidresser in Europe to try ombre. I was so excited to have super trendy hairdye so that I even took a picture with me of my favourite british model- Rosie Huntington. Unfortunately I came back home with chocolate brown hair with tears in eyes and retoric question”What did I do?!”. No vestige of blond.

femi-coach diy easy ombre at home darkening blonde roots- rosie huntington

So after some time and long hair treatment I desperately came back to platinium blond, because I didn’t trusted any hairdresser knows ombre technique so dying whole hair blond seem to be easier. I know, silly step, but prefered to be blond than brunette.

My hair were a bit destroyed, fortunately not extremly, I invested in Kerastase products, and it worked. Lucky me:) So, what happen later? Hair started to grow in healthy condition, but roots didn’t look good, what meant- you need to dye them again! My problem was- which way to go with my roots. Highlights or full cover.  I purchased Loreal hairdye cream, at the moment I even don’t remeber the exact number od shade. It worked. Roots covered.

The problem started to be more complicated. After two months my hair got yellow undertone. I didn’t like it anymore. I came to idea to learn ombre technique on Youtube and finally get rid of problem with roots. Most of films show how to brighten your hair, but I needed to do it on the contrary. From blond to dark blond. So I purchased ash light ash brown 6A of Loreal Excellence and covered 60 % of my hair. Blond ends I left and smoothed the contrast with a comb.

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Down below you can see my very easy and affordable transformation. I still have some yellow undertone, the hairdye cream washed out a bit, but now I can do it on my own, and it is easy like ABC:)

Easy ombre at home DIY darkening roots

   I look more natural, and I am satisfied. On Youtube I showed how to do it at home!

If you have any questions, I will answer with pleasure!

Your Femi-Coach


#OOTD NYC Saturday Night

Saturday is a perfect time to go out! Today I created for you a very disctinctive and daring look for extravagant women. I matched the glittering fabulous Balmain dress with fiery red stilettos of Valentino, which dominate in this season in Fashion Capitals. Because the dress and shoes are the two top elements of the outfit I decided to add minimalistic elegant bag with silver hardware.Which elements of the outfit do you find extravagant and why? Let’s go to the party!

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Balmain mini dress
$4,175 – balmain.com

Valentino shoes
$1,175 – mytheresa.com

Yves Saint Laurent clutch
$720 – italist.com

#OOTD Friday Night Look

Hello Everyone! Today I am presenting  my idea of Summer Night Look for party & unofficial meetings with friends. Simple outfit for those of you who like feminine look with distinctive colorful accent. I would wear jacket because it is a perfect solution when it is getting cold in the evening and you still can look stylish and smart. I do not prefer to wear too much colors but the bag brightens the heavy style of jacket, while the thin shoulder strap and narrow heels look light and schick. You can replace the bag with a creamy one, it will look awesome!

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MY BEACH MUST HAVE- Trip to Jersey Shore!

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Hello everyone!

Sunny morning, head full of ideas: Where should I go today?! Sometimes I think 24 hours is too less! Having free weekend I always want to do maximum many things I can. This time my destination was- Long Branch Beach- New Jersey Shore:)

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I woke up really early, something about 6.30 to prepare myself to the trip. What do we need? Here are my ideas if you go by car. I wanted to present for you the “MUST HAVE” from my experience going to the beach during whole summer time:)

beach must have of femi-coach livestyle trip to jersey shore long branch new jersey

I went with my husband together, so he helped me carrying all this stuff:) (Of course I would not take so many things if I go on my own! That would be little crazy! Umbrella, refrigirator and, and, and….)

So, we took sunblocker cream, towel, a lot of cold water in little refrigirator, white cap, some clothes in case of wind or sunburn, wet wipes, snacks as chopped fruits in boxes, sunglasses, something to read, hawaians, sun umbrella, camera, some cash for entrance fee, dinner and souvenirs and small bag in which I carry money and camera close to me.

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Why do I find this place special? Becuacause there is everything what I expect from a weekend trip. It is safe, clear and the Resort of Long Branch offers to its clients a lot. I advice to have a small bag if you plan to walk along the beach and have a dinner. You do not have to worry about things you leave on the blanket because it is a really safe place. I was amazed of sea food around the beach.

beach must have of femi-coach livestyle trip to jersey shore long branch new jersey

Everyone  can find something here. Drink Bars with music, Snacks, nice beach clothes of good quality, hotels, SPA, family- friendly areas and water sports. I do love this place also for clear water, wide beach and possibilities of spending here time, which Long Branch offers.

beach must have of femi-coach livestyle trip to jersey shore long branch new jersey

beach must have of femi-coach livestyle trip to jersey shore long branch new jersey

I am considering which beach of New Jersey is your favourite? Any ideas for the comming weekend?:)

Have fun!

Your Femi-Coach



#OOTD Sunday H&M Brunch Look

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Beautiful weather came to New Jersey, so it is a perfect time to wear heals outside for a Sunday brunch:) Let’s see the details down below!

femi-caoch.com #OOTD Brunch Summer Look

I simply love heels, so only when I get a chance, except office, where they are required, I try to match them with shirts, jeans and dresses, which I can usually wear on weekends or my free time.

femi-caoch.com #OOTD Brunch Summer Look

You may think: “Why she doesn’t prefer to run in hawaians?!”. Girls! Nothing could be more wrong:) I love comfortable shoes, but when it is a special time with my family, having together  nice meal outside, I do love to wear clothes and shoes waiting for me in wardrobe during all the winter time!

femi-caoch.com #OOTD Brunch Summer Look

femi-caoch.com #OOTD Brunch Summer Look

I have today leather trousers, chanel 2.55 bag with  H&M glasses, shirt and shoes form collection of 2015. I find black and white always elegant, but to avoid looking “overdressed” for the brunch, I crashed the outfit with heavy heels. The shoes are quite comfy but I would recommend them if you go by car and spend your time sitting. It sounds like they would be uncomfortable, isn’t it?:) The truth is they look perfect with skinny clothing, but even if they are comfy, after few hours of walking your feet will call for help in every heels by 70 Farenheit:)

femi-caoch.com #OOTD Brunch Summer Look

If you prefer flat shoes, perfect for you in summer time are leather ballerinas or sandals. Choose the right style, match them for instance- with the bag or dress in pastel colors and you are ready to go:)

How do you like to be dressed having lunch or dinner in the city?

Have a great day Ladies!

Femi Coach

femi-caoch.com #OOTD Brunch Summer Look

Acti Labs Cosmetics – test and first review


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Hello my dear women!:) Today I got an opportunity to test for you few cosmetics from freshly founded company- Acti Labs. It is an exquisite beauty house offering luxurious French skin care and custom-blended cosmetics via online shop and thousands of independent ambasadors. All products are created with the finest paraben-free ingredients and are never tested on animals. As the manufacturer of own product, Acti-Labratories, LLC invests heavily in research and development to ensure that only the best products reach their consumers.


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I decided to test 2 blushes and one powder- that was love from first sight!  Down below I will explain you my experience with Acti Labs cosmetics, but first I would like to intruduce this comapny with some photos.


acti-labs femi-coach.com first review blush powder

acti-labs femi-coach.com first review blush powder

acti-labs femi-coach.com first review blush powder

They offer a variety of skin care- serum,cream, masks and whatever you can imagine:) I also heard about their great matt lipstics which seem to be the same quality as the great well known of Kylie Jenner:)

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But comming back to blushes! I decides to test two colors which I personally find beautiful. I have chosen two shades


powder blush on femi-coach.com                                                                   1. sweet apricot                            2. coral dune


All products, as you can see are in purple color is their trademark. After first use of these perfect colors for summer season, I can sincerly admit, that they are very pigmented, but a bigger difference between these shades you will see on my skin.

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Worth mentioning is the fact, that it is hard to make a stain with these blushes on the cheek- that means they blend nicely. This is what I expect from colorful cosmetics. It is my face without blush.


acti-labs femi-coach.com first review blush powder


acti-labs femi-coach.com first review blush powder


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and here you can see how blendable they are

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There are two different shades available online: https://acti-labs.com/me/labs/cosmetics/powder-blush-on/



The second product I tested is the Diamond Dust Face Powder in color Sweet Nugat. Available are 3 shades:


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femi-coach.com acti labs review test diamond dust pace powder sweet nugat


The packaging is very safe with a button- that means , there is no risk it opens in your bag. Mirror packaging will look perfect in any elegant bag if you carry cosmetics with you.


femi-coach.com acti labs review test diamond dust pace powder sweet nugat


Moreover, its has mirror inside, so you can easily primp your make up during the day. It contains a transparant cover inside, which I use as a kind of “prop” for the blending/powder brush.


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Because I suffer from redness on my cheecks, I always choose powder and fundation in yellow tone. It is a multi purpose powder, which has also application as highlither/bronzer or even blush. It neutralizes imperfections and creates glowy efect on the skin,  so I used it as a setting powder, because I like “healthy look”. The mosaic delivers natural look which suits every complexion.


Moreover, its has mirror inside, so you can easily primp your make up during the day. It contains a transparant cover inside, which I use as a kind of "prop" for the blending/powder brush.


Moreover, its has mirror inside, so you can easily primp your make up during the day. It contains a transparant cover inside, which I use as a kind of "prop" for the blending/powder brush.


Moreover, its has mirror inside, so you can easily primp your make up during the day. It contains a transparant cover inside, which I use as a kind of "prop" for the blending/powder brush.


It is as good pigmented as the blushes. You can use it also without foundation. I recommend to put it on your skin in summertime, to have some correct most of the imperfections to look fresh ….. and the most important thing to me- ingredients:). Becuase first positions on the list are in majority of the product, I decided to analyse some of them, starting from the beginning and the result…was very optimistic:)

Femi Coach


femi-coach.com acti labs diamond dust face powder


      Mica , Zinc Stearate , Micronized Titanium Dioxide , Jojoba Oil Esters , Palm Oil Esters, WATER/AQUA , Lauryl Methacrylate , Glycol Dimethacrylate Crosspolymer , Dicaprylyl Ether , Niacinamide , Yeast Extract , Aesculus Hippocastanum (Horse Chestnut) Seed Extract , Algae Extract, Ammonium Glycyrrhizate, Panthenol , Zinc Gluconate , Caffeine , Xanthan Gum , Polyglyceryl-2 Dipolyhydroxystearate, Biotin, Tocopherol (Vitamin E) , May Contain (+/-): Iron Oxide CI 77491, Iron Oxide CI 77492, Iron Oxide CI 77499


Ingredient Function UV Acne Irritant Safety
Mica Pigment
Zinc Stearate Pigment
0 0
Micronized Titanium Dioxide Anti-inflammatory
Jojoba esters Emollient
Water Solvent
Lauryl methacrylate Viscosity Control
Dicaprylyl ether Solvent
Yeast Extract
Aesculus Hippocastanum Seed Extract
Algae Extract Moisturizer
Ammonium glycyrrhizate
Panthenol Antistatic
0 0
Zinc Gluconate
Caffeine Fragrance
Xanthan Gum Viscosity Control
Polyglyceryl-2 Dipolyhydroxystearate
Tocopherol Antioxidant 2 2

#OOTD Marine dress. Chanel & Nike on board!

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Hello my dear women! Because today is a great weather I decided to wear marine striped dress in mixed style. I was walking around the city so I had my comfy white Nike shoes which fit every smart outfit! I added Chanel 2.55 bag with golden hardware- that is my first mixed outfit- classy Chanel with sporty Nike. One year ago I could not imagine to wear this two visibly distinct piece of clothing. As high heel fanatic, now I am definitely starting to get on board with the sport shoes! I am an example, that women chages their mind:)

femi-coach marine dress chanel 2.55 nike shoes ootd

femi-coach marine dress chanel 2.55 nike shoes ootd

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femi-coach marine dress chanel 2.55 nike shoes ootd

femi-coach marine dress chanel 2.55 nike shoes ootd

femi-coach marine dress chanel 2.55 nike shoes ootd

femi-coach marine dress chanel 2.55 nike shoes ootd

Who knows what will be fashionable in 5 or 10 years? My attitude towards style and its dedicated rules was always quite restrictive. Now I want to open my imagination to new ideas and fashion experiences! What are your mad ideas about matching different styles?

Femi Coach

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Work dress code. Does the devil really wear Prada?


Be slim. Look good. Change your style. Be trendy, says the Devil.  In this day and age we suffer from information overload. Mass Media create trends, image is becoming more important, while huge corporations are setting us high targets. How to look good and keep a cool head? Few tips about work dress code.

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The general definition of dress codes says that these are written and, more often, unwritten rules with regard to clothing. Clothing like other aspects of human physical appearance has a social significance, with different rules and expectations being valid depending on circumstance and occasion. It is worth mentioning, that every company has different rules – some are more or less restrictive, from professional to casual style. However, if you occupy high position – you may be obliged to every day professional business dress code. If you are a new employee you may look around before you start your first days in a company, or simply ask your superior. If you feel uncertain – do not be concerned about it. Being a part of group will be very welcome by your boss. Some employers prefer corporate/business casual dress code during weekdays, except for friday when you are allowed to wearsmart casual clothing. What are the most popular work dress codes?


Dress code plays identification role.  Every day the same look without a common problem – what should I wear today? 🙂

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Professional business

The most restrictive dress code. Every detail is defined and matters to the extent, where one ommission, means you are downgraded to business casual. It is dedicated to professionals occupying the highest positions. Required are:

  • light coloured collared blouses
  • neutral color long sleeved classic suits (long trousers or knee lenght shirt)
  • black or neutral hosiery
  • elegant, closed toed shoes, medium heels
  • simple hairstyle

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Acceptable are white and light blue shirts with collar under the suit

(Buy this shirt at Macy’s online, click on the photo)


simple hairstyles

Business casual

Here are preferred:

  • blasers
  • botton down shirtspravila horoshego tona v delovoi odezhde dlia zhenshchin
  • elegant shoes
  • sweaters
  • cardigans
  • dress pants
  • capri pants
  • suit pants
  • khakis


  • T-shirts
  • sleevless bouses
  • sheer Blouses
  • tank tops
  • shorts
  • leggins
  • printed trousers or shirts
  • jeans
  • linen pants



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Official party 

It is the second most restrictive dress code. is is sharp and elegant. You can use colors but maintain class in clothing. Welcome are elegant shoes, dresses, jewerly and hairstyle. Avoid “party” shocking make up:), super short dresses, low neckline, big shoulderbags. The rule is: the less, the better!

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Kate Middleton in Blue Dress at Freedom of the City Ceremony in Quebec-07

Smart casual

It is a combinations of casual, business professional and business casual style, that is why it is called “smart”. It is appropriate to wear nice skirt, femi dress or dark jeans with a printed shirts, blasers and some elegant accesories which will give your outfit a schick sharp look. Do not be afraid of colors! Show your personality. Full elegant flexibility.



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This style can be defined as something relaxed, occasional, not planned. You can wear your favourite pair of jeans! Match them with a stylish top or accesories. Heels not required, but not forbidden! Feel smart and comfortable.

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Get to know your coworkers and style that is required for every day look. To change the outfit you may operate with jewelry, accesories, colors or hairstyles. Moreover – your make up or a small accent like neckerchief can change the whole look, so you will always look fresh and schick.

Find your style and feel good!

Femi Coach